31/05/09
Every Sunday if I were to play mahjong, Yang will go swimming. Yesterday one of our mahjong kaki, played half way, felt giddy and wanted to black out. Me and one of our kaki bring her to toilet than she vomitted. After that she fainted. We called her but no respond. After that she wokeup again and faint again. We got no choice but to call ambulance at the same time informed her son. Her son and ambulance arrived at the same time. Elder sis send us home than she went down to NUH to take a look and see how's everything. This morning I message sis see how is her liao. Thank God she's fine..
Today Yang got remedial, I took a cab send him down to school than at the same time I go to work. While he alight the cab, he said goodbye and I love you to me.. So sweet of him...
Last Wednesday, went for Parent teacher meet. Yang's result was no good at all. 1st I saw the teacher, I told him that I'm Zhao Yang's mother. He say, hi and telling me that he like Zhao Yang alot. In class, when he start to asked question, he is always the first one to raise up his hand and answer, and his teacher knows that he know the answer that why he want to give other student a chance to answer, until the rest don't know than he will asked him. When come to ask him he knows everything, but when come to do on his own, he can't. I don't know what happen. I always asked him to study hard. At least study the minimum lar. Not the maximum, I don't pressure him at all. I don't expect him to go to University. The teacher told me, don't look at his result and judge him. he is a very responsible boy. Beside the monitor he is the next better pupil in class. His teacher also told me that, when he give him homework, some of them he do not know how to do, he will go up to him straight and apologize saying "sorry, teacher I don't know how to do that's why I leave blank. Than the teacher will reply it's ok, and telling me his character, responsibility he got no doubt about him.
Although, his study is no good, but to me he is a smart boy. He tend to be forgetful and don't check his work. This can ruin your future if you carry on like that. He is someone who don't know or understand anything will raise question. But somehow I don't know how come his result turn out to be in another way. Anyway his future is in his hand, what I have done already done. Next year is the critical year. I think I need to spend more time with him on his study, but I can't help much too. If he's not going to pass next year, he is going to stay back for 1 more year, that will be the nightmare.
That's my advise to Zhao Yang...
Frankly speaking, outsider will judge you on your result, whether you are stupid or not they will judge you on your result OK. Not like me as a mummy, you are always a smart boy to me. So you are big enough to think and start to study hard now, rather than too late and regret.